9/19/14

My God Given Birthday Gift!

Hello All,

On September 24th, I will celebrate my birthday. That may not mean much to you however, this year I have learned that any day new life is born is a good day to celebrate! Learned you say.

Yes, indeed. Until a few weeks ago, I was not really planning to celebrate my birthday. Frankly, I am tired and had visions of sleeping for a few days while someone/ anyone else took over my responsibilities. That was all the birthday celebrating I needed. Here is why.

My writing and speaking has grown steadily while my children have grown in huge spurts. My bank account experienced deposits while my heart for you has been overdrawn by your sad stories and marriage challenges. My day time filled with volunteer service while the work God has assigned piled high on my desk. The Holy Spirit whispered "Lisa, hear the Word of the Lord" while my husband shouted "You don't listen".

In my tired state, slumped over in my comfy chair, I prayed. Why? That is what good Christian women do. I prayed for peace, rest, and clarity. Through a series of amazing events, conversations, and chastening, God answered.

He revealed truth. I was not serving with same diligence. He was birthing new life with more book signings, support calls, and other good work. He was creating my reasons to celebrate. through this growth process my attitude and actions were realigned with God's will. It's my birthday and God loves me!
What a great reason to celebrate.

Hebrews 12:6-11New King James Version (NKJV) reads:
For whom the Lord loves He chastens,and scourges every son whom He receives.” If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?  But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons.

I have learned that in our zeal for using our gifts, operating in our calling, and working for the Church, we often slip off track. We settle into complacency and frequently allow the needs of people to dictate our decisions. The funny thing about being married is that God will use your husband to warn you. Has your husband been calling to you?  Are you really listening?

Once you get tired enough to pray, God delights in turning things around.


Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:11 NKJV

Another year older and I have grown in new ways. Help me celebrate.

Wives On Purpose Support Calls. Don't let your married friends suffer any longer when you know I am here. Bring them with you and get on these life changing calls. There is no other place where you can speak freely in a place without judgment. Share your deepest feelings and get wisdom from God's chosen women to guide your thoughts and actions. I am a master group facilitator. You will be so glad you came. The hardest thing about these calls is deciding to let go of pride or fear or other excuses to dial in. Enjoy new reasons to celebrate and ask me what I did for this birthday.
The next call is October 18thRegister today.

I am also happy to invite you to my online workshop.
"You, Me, and He"  Need creative ways to keep faith alive in your marriage even when you husband doesn't seem to be interested. Think you are alone? Even the Pastor's wife may wonder if her husband believes what he preaches on Sunday. Let me help you ignite faith and fuel passion in an everlasting love. Register today.

Well, September 24th is coming soon. The Wives On Purpose and a weekend alone with my husband are my very best gifts. I luv you all and thanks for sharing life with me.

Who would have thought that being tired could lead to making my birthday.... Happy!

Ministering to your marriage,
Lisa

 

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